Don't Smother The Spark: Too Much Too Soon

I was 27 years old before I learned that the skills that make a good relationship are not the same skills that start a new relationship. Everywhere I went people would tell me I’d be a good husband and father, except I wasn’t getting through the first few dates very smoothly.  I saw people all around me doing the same thing - giving too much too soon.

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How To Move On

I once read “Dating: either you get married or you break up. No pressure.” When it comes to rejection and heartbreak, I’m not a rookie. I've went for it and wish I had and here's some tips from the trenches of how to move on.

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Approaching the Promise Land...Scared

What do you do when after all the time of waiting and working towards something, God says "Okay, we're here. It's time to have what you've always wanted"? I know what my response should have been: celebration. But if I'm honest, I had a lot more to walk through before I'd reach, celebration.

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